Compare your travel speed with the videos. If you are going slower you will need to use less amperage. Also one technique that helps is to pull back just a little and pause when adding the filler, then pull back the filler and move in close with the torch to wash the puddle forward. These movements are all very small on the order of .030" to .060", but they do make a difference. Keep your initial arc length about the diameter of the tungsten you are using. You will want to do the dip and pause around 1 second intervals and move ahead each time about a quarter to half the diameter of the puddle. That way you still have some molten metal and some solid. Try to keep the puddle roughly the same size. If it starts to sink below the surface, you need to add a little more rod with each dip. If it gets too tall and close to the tungsten, add a little less each time. Make small changes and watch what the effect is, don't try to to a huge correction or you will just be chasing things all over. There are a lot of videos out there that could use some editing, but since you have no one to look over your shoulder and provide real time feedback, I would advise that you watch lots of them. Look for not only the things that are good, but look for some of the problems you are having. You can even learn from some of the really bad welding videos out there. Compare them to the good ones and try to figure out what the person's problem is. Most new welders I have taught mainly have issues with travel speed and arc length. Getting a good cadence is pretty simple to master. Holding arc length can be tricky. Make sure you have a good prop and do not get into a bind. Taking lots of dry runs without power or helmet and watching the height of the tungsten will help with that. You need to be as steady as you can. I look for being able to control the motion of the tip of the tungsten to plus or minus .030" at all times, much less if possible. That just takes practice. It's rather like writing and why I tell most people to hold the torch like a pencil. You want to control it with your fingertips, not swing it around like a club.
Long arc, short arc, heliarc and in-the-dark!