I had the same issue, but rather than welding the aluminum kickstand to the chrome moly frame (brazing with silicon Bronze is the only method), I think a better solution is to weld a piece of square stock to the top of the kickstand, so that it acts as an anti rotation plate/ledge, against the frame tube. This way the kickstand is still removable in case of a needed repair, and you are dealing with similar metals.
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